Relate action and consequences, be realistic, be flexible, offer choices and not threats.
Connect action with consequence, don't threaten, follow through with discipline, use time out.
Establish clear-cut rules, keep lines of communication open, be available and supportive, listen to what your child has to say.
Emphasize consequences of actions, use humor to resolve conflicts, use role reversal.
Eliminate temptation, supervise, redirect, calmly say "no".
0 to 2 years of age
9 to 12 years of age
13 and older
6 to 8 years of age
3 to 5 years of age